tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-735073078900197061.post1151759769645908792..comments2023-04-02T09:50:48.929-04:00Comments on Wonderfully Complex: The straw that will break the camels back...Mitzi http://www.blogger.com/profile/13004105771062457494noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-735073078900197061.post-85327638303543690652011-08-19T09:51:02.884-04:002011-08-19T09:51:02.884-04:00@Brian - After sitting down and trying to figure o...@Brian - After sitting down and trying to figure out our issues and what we argue about; seems that we disagree on one thing only. It can be resolved but it's going to take some time for me to find comfort in it. Right now, things have yet to play themselves out and you know that I'm not a fan of patience. But in time, things will start to progress and hopefully so can we :)<br />@ Brown English Muffin - Girl you hit the nail right on the head! I cannot live this whole relationship finding trust. I don't trust Brian, not as much as I would like. Sometimes it's hard for me to see things for what it is because I want to see what I want to see. He sees his future with me and I should see that as a positive thing but here I am focusing on the negative thigs. Hopefully with some hard work I can see past them and into a great future with my Boo-Thang (as Ro would say!)<br />~TootAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-735073078900197061.post-17790646934963713832011-08-19T09:41:48.106-04:002011-08-19T09:41:48.106-04:00I think trust is a normal emotion and anyone void ...I think trust is a normal emotion and anyone void of it has other issues.<br /><br />Obviously like Brian said each situation is different for each individual...so I can only comment from my own experiences.<br /><br />Do I trust my husband 100% heck no...not because he's ever done anything to make me distrust him but because he's 100% human and we can all make mistakes.<br /><br />But I can't live my entire marriage revolved around trusting him or not trusting him.<br /><br />I'm comfortable in accepting that his actions will directly reflect his respect for me. If he does something that shows disrespect then I have to accept it as that and decide "then" what I want to do.<br /><br />I simply can't live my life waiting for something to happen....especially something that might NEVER happen.Brown English Muffinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00618754928211481845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-735073078900197061.post-71828741308316309352011-08-12T11:52:18.374-04:002011-08-12T11:52:18.374-04:00Let me start by saying the pictures from your iPho...Let me start by saying the pictures from your iPhone suck. Nothing gets resolved by beating the dead horse. Oft times its hard to see where the other person is coming from because every situation is unique to the individual person and thus may require you to remove yourself from it. How we deal with difficulties is personal. Having someone that has no ties to what is going i.e a counselor is a good idea. It can serve also to create a I was right you were wrong situation. Fight the battles that deserve to be fought and pull back on those that only serve to create problems or are underlying issues of a bigger problem. In the end we have to determine if the issues can be resolved or if it is better to let it go and move on so that we can better human being not holding on to issues that destroy us little by little.Brian Sabbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01766177139232481869noreply@blogger.com